Difficult Conversation with a More-Powerful Person
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A Difficult Conversation with a More-Powerful Person is a difficult conversation with a more-powerful person.
- Context:
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- See: Pleasant Conversation, Hurt Feelings.
References
2016
- https://hbr.org/2016/03/how-to-disagree-with-someone-more-powerful-than-you
- QUOTE: Principles to Remember
- Do:
- Explain that you have a different opinion and ask if you can voice it.
- Restate the original point of view or decision so it’s clear you understand it.
- Speak slowly — talking in an even tone calms you and the other person down.
- Don’t:
- Assume that disagreeing is going to damage your relationship or career — the consequences are often less dramatic than we think.
- State your opinions as facts; simply express your point of view and be open to dialogue.
- Use judgment words, such as “hasty,” “foolish,” or “wrong,” that might upset or incite your counterpart.
- Do:
- QUOTE: Principles to Remember